In the dating world, it is not uncommon for women to have certain standards for the men they choose to date. These standards may include things like financial stability, ambition, and physical appearance. However, when men express similar standards for the women they choose to date, they are often met with criticism and accusations of sexism. This double standard is not only unfair, but it is also hypocritical.
A recent study conducted by Albright College has found a startling double standard in the dating world: men can experience stigma for expressing the same standards that women are often criticized for. The study, which was conducted over several months and included focus groups of hundreds of people from all walks of life, revealed some interesting insights into how men and women interact when it comes to setting boundaries in relationships.
The research showed that men can be judged harshly if they express standards that are similar to those held by women. For example, while a woman may be praised for having high expectations or refusing to settle for less than she deserves, a man who expresses the same standards may be labeled as being too picky or judgmental. Additionally, men often face pressure to “go along with whatever is expected” even if they don’t agree with it – something that rarely happens to women.
Men should have the right to set their own standards in what they want in a woman
In many cases, it is seen as acceptable for a woman to demand a man make six figures, be over six feet tall and be in good shape; but when a man says he simply doesn’t want a woman to be fat, he faces criticism. However, this double standard should not be allowed to exist any longer. Everyone should have the right to set their own personal preferences without judgment from others or societal pressure to conform.
The mainstream media is also attacking men for wanting women who believe in the traditional gender norms, calling them misogynistic and harmful while standing beside women who still want a traditional man. The idea that only one gender has the right to set certain expectations on their partners is outdated and damaging.
Men should have the right to set their own standards in what they want in a woman. Don’t let anyone try to tell you otherwise!
